
He said to his father, nothing I do is ever enough, I don’t feel I’m the man of the house, or the master in my kids life, in my own family.
His father said what you doing is more than enough, a woman should not ask from the man more than food. Her needs, is only for you to put food on the table. His father said the women needs to be fed, kids needs to be fed, so as long as you put food on the table, and a shelter over their head you don't need to do more than that, to be a man.
One day she came from work, from the hairdresser, she and her daughter, she had a nice haircut, so he said to her, oh your hair looks nice, and she looked in his eye, and she wonder why a woman only needs to be fed only, why can't he see, the woman needs more than food on table. And she asked him, why you never give me money to go to a hairdresser, to do my hair? he said my: my obligation is only to put food in the table, and I’m already doing that, why should I buy more or repay for a hairdresser for you and my daughter, if you want the extra you should work and do it yourself.
That's 20 years marriage life, no anniversary celebration, no birthday present for the woman, no nice occasion taking the wife out, for 20 years no special dinner out. That's the value of woman in his family, woman should be in the house to cook, and clean. And while her husband should not show her any value, appreciate anything she do, he put food on the table, she should, cook, clean, and they expect her to perform in the bedroom. That’s a wife role in a man s life.
Why? because the man put food on the table, life for him is just food in the table. I wonder what is the real value of woman in this relation.
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