
He looked in his son’s eye ,and he asked him, did she ask your opinion before she paint your room, or cleaning ?. Did your mom ask you before she moves a computer desk from your bedroom, did she seek approval from you of the colour, of the new wall , new bed, new cupboard for your bedroom. I think if she respects you, she should have asked you before she do anything in your bedroom. If she come to your room again she should be out to her own space, why she do this changes anyway , it's not about her, it’s about you, she doesn’t respect you as a mom, she should show respect to you. This is not how you love your son, that's how you should not treat your son. I don’t think she’s right, sadly the son cried in his father shoulder, thinking oh my mom does not respect my opinion, my mom does not really love me in the right way, my mom doesn't treat me as a person, she think I’m nobody , and she doesn't love me in the right way, so when his mom came to his room, he didn't feel love for his mom, he didn't feel respect. Imagine a father make his son dis-value his mom’s effort to take care of him, so the young man told his mother get out, don't want you here, get out of my room, I don’t want you to make my bed, I don’t want you to be in my room. I can do that myself, before she leaves, she looked in his eyes, she saw the disrespect, dis-value, the envy, the hate, that the father have transmitted to the young man. And that's how you damage the soul, when we talk to someone else , influence his opinion in the wrong way, he told him a story about tribe, decided to exile the mother from the tribe, because they believed the mother in her old age, is not useful anymore, so the son came to his mom, and said, you should be exiled from the tribe, she said what about the years the old woman had gave to the tribe? the young man said, no longer needed , she should be exiled from the village, the tribe decide she should be out, she has bad influence in the village. The mom tried to respond back, but in tribes you should take care of your old people, even they not good to you as they used to be, or not as useful as they were when they were young. Your duty is to take care of them, he looked at her, and he said we take care of them , if we want them in the tribe, but we decided you should be exiled, We don't need to take care of you, why should we ? And that's very successful mission, of the father to damage the soul of the son , and the image of family. That's very wrong choice of the woman, to take this man as a father of her kids, she was blind, and she made the wrong decision 25 years ago. And now the soul is damaged for all of them.

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