No pain, no gain, that's the name of the game

If you are a student, want to gain knowledge, if you are a mum, want to make your kids strong, successful in life, if you are a businessman, want to reach the top, if you are anyone, who want to reach anywhere, you need to think, if there is no pain, no gain. When the 1st man came to earth and he tried to protect himself, he build a home, when there was no tools, he had to cut trees, learn how to make his home warm, learn how to make a roof, furniture, manage water to be enough indoor, so many tasks, to protect yourself, and your family from any dangers outside. But always think, to achieve all that, the first man, had to go through a lot of pain, that's how you can gain.

In modern life, we have everything available for us, tools, knowledge.  We have invented money, to exchange services, we managed to succeed in all safety measurements, we keep adding more, for all of us, every day, so on and so forth. We still have to experiment pain, if we want to gain, that's the name of the game.

 Imagine a student go to school and he has no exams, will he be interested in listening to the teacher? If there is no evaluation for him will he be interested to learn, or he just want to play. You going to ask me but why always we need to have pain, it is very simple answer, if we have pain, we learn, we think, we compromise, then finally we can achieve.

Can anyone go through life without pain?, if you do that, you really put yourself to fail, when you see the joy, when you finish your task, and achieve your goal, you still remember the pain, but you enjoy really the happiness, and what comes with it. Some people are capable of handling the pain with different ways, some people seek knowledge from experience, wiser, older person, some people search for knowledge, in a book, in a religion building, in the wisdom of family member.

But definitely some people fail to handle the pain, so they try to go for the easy way out, it could be surrenders themselves to any sort of addiction, or just ignore the cause of the pain, and losing hope, the good thing about human being, that they can always stand up again, it is really extraordinary. When we used  horses for riding, or commuting between places, it took us days, weeks, sometimes months, to reach between cities.

When the 1st man who invented a car, he was so proud, that he can shorten the distance, to go through these two places, in less than half a day, and now we have Elon Musk want to travel to Mars. So we started by walking on earth, riding horses, camels, other creatures, maybe dinosaurs, to go from one place to another, we have learned to control these animals, and make them surrender to our well. So simple , yet powerful, then we invented tools, machines, cars, aeroplane’s, etc,  to be able to achieve more. The concept of wanting more, have been always around since human learn to walk till they learned eventually to fly. But really what you need to think of, how much more we can achieve, can someone go upstairs to the 7th sky, and see angels?, or see the creator of earth?. How much more ambition a human being can try.

Now, you can ask yourself, what's the best method to handle your pain?, when you go through tough time, or when you try to make a plan for tomorrow. You need to start by looking at the pain as a process, as necessarily step, for you to reach your goal. Look at it that way, if you patient enough, if you are humble enough, if you are flexible enough, you will be able to learn from your mistakes, you will be able to see the light shining on your life ,at the end of the tunnel, hopefully. You could make your journey shorter, by asking for advice from experienced people, older people, in the field you want to achieve. Don't surrender yourself to the easy way.

 The easy way, is very wrong choice, try to flag it out from your plan, it might help some people, to reach some goals, but it will not make you gain the strength, the power, to achieve more, to have a solid ground, to be the master of your game.

Learning, is a key for any project to be successful. If you want to open a business, and you have no knowledge, if you dare to experiment, and you lose, it's OK, it's experiment, learn from it  and move on, stand up again, be strong, be smart. The first two years, are the hardest for any store, or a public service, and if your goal, just to make money, you cannot really be 100% successful. Your goal should be achieving to be knowledgeable, to pass your knowledge to others, and to be great in what you do.

Oh, can I be great in what I do? Yes, you can, by God’s well you can, it's a very simple rule, God created for us human on earth. If you try, and if you keep trying, you can succeed one day. It takes efforts, patient, using the skills you have, using the tools, the creator gave you, and using the help of others. A little bit of pain, or too much pain, will make your goal clearer, will make the light shine in your life.

Maybe you walk in the dark now, maybe you don't know where your project is going, but ,you will be surprised how much you could achieve, when you try.

 Life is too short to hold back on your goals and dreams, just keep trying, you might reach one day somehow.

 My kids are my life, I hope they will have a better chance on earth than mine. I hope they can invest, in their intelligence, in their strong power, in their will to learn.

 I hope on the way to success, they don't make their heart called like a stone, having a kind heart, and learning how to manage the balance, between what your heart feel towards others, and what your brain tells you logically, and how can you keep the balance alive, between holding someone's hand, and let go of your pain, remember, no pain no gain, that's the name of the game.

When a fish swim in the tank, it keep looking for food, the tank is big, full of water, and the fish is too small, but he wake up every morning, and he has a goal, to look for food, protect himself from other bigger fish. And in the meantime have a companionship with another fish.

 It might sound a silly example to you, but this is the simple explanation of life. We all fish in a tank. We came to earth not by choice, and we have to be good observer of, what tools we have, how to learn from our mistakes, and how to handle our pain, learn from it, and move on.

Being tolerant of your pain, will make you proud,  make you strong, and maybe, just maybe, it will make you happy, being happy is the ultimate goal for us human, because we like to enjoy, and we don't like the pain.