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Updated: Nov 27, 2024




Companionship is really powerful need for us human being. Since the beginning of earth, since Adam and Eve found each other, we always enjoyed companionship, but how to make our relation successful, or growing healthy, or make us enjoy life, is a big task for all of us to try to achieve.

We go through lives with our differences, we meet someone, we fall in love, we start a very deep, inspiring, productive journey, to achieve companionship.

 We all try to find ourself through the eyes of others, we think we try to achieve, sometimes we are successful, sometimes we are not. Marriage for 40 years used to be the norm, only 100 years ago, look at our latest Queen Elizabeth in United Kingdom and how long her marriage lasted I wonder.

People used to stay with each other till they get old, it's very hard in the modern 20 century, to achieve that 50 years goal target. It's very hard for people to try to comprehend, what is really needed from them. Do I love you, how do I love you, do I need you, how much do I need you in my life. Two people choose to live with each other, at the beginning, they try to know each other or understand how to make the relation work. With time goes by, you have the routine of the house, the bills, the kids, and you lose track of yourself, and who you really are, and what is your partner need from you, do you still fulfil each other, is being in love, and giving a part of your soul to your partner, is really enough to keep the relation going for the next 50 years?.

Modern life made us have different needs, we don't ride horses anymore, we buy cars, then you need to update your car, we don't live in trees anymore, we need to buy a house, then you need to upgrade your house.

 During this journey, you neglect yourself, you don't see your partner's needs anymore, and you keep going into that machine. I need to upgrade, why have I need to have knew of this? And why I need to have latest version of that? and we become materialistic human being.

For a computer to understand the human language, we need to do coding, which means, we put words in the machine language, to make the computer give us the output, and the results required, whether it's a graphic, or accounting  or any task to be achieved by this computer. But for human to interact with each other, they need to update their system as well, bye finding the real needs of each other. When you are 20, is different from you when you are, 40, 50, 60 and so on and so forth, life is too short to hesitate, trying to knock new doors, finding new ways to understand, what is companionship, how to express your love, how to fulfil the needs of your partner, did you make the right choice?, in choosing your partner, or you have to continue your life not feeling happy, or safe, or you have failed to make your partner happy, or understand his needs in the correct way, to be able to keep him for your companionship till the end?.

Real life stories, inspiring, interesting and has deep human touch. Wisdom, fulfilling and happy endings one day hopefully.


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